What does it mean to be hospitable? Biblical stories extol hospitality as both a duty and a work of mercy. The desert ‘Bedouin’ hospitality is a necessity for survival; and since this necessity falls upon all alike, any guest is entitled to hospitality from any host. The guest, once accepted by the host, is sacred, and must be protected from any danger even at the cost of the life of members of the family.
The good host makes a feast for his guest as is never prepared for his own family. The duty of the host to protect the guest is illustrated by the stories of Lot at Sodom [Genesis 19:1,8] and the man of Gibeah [Judges 19:16-24]. Job boasts of hospitality [Job 31:23]. God is certainly the generous host [Psalms 15:1; 23:5].
Many stories from the Books of Kings speak of hospitality. Each of the four stories of chapter 4 describes in some way the power of God, through the prophet Elisha, breaking into hopeless situations and shattering them with a word of life. One of those stories is about a couple from the village of Shunem [just over the hill from the New Testament village of Nain in northern Israel] who provide food and lodging for the prophet Elisha; he in turn promises them a son, even though they had been married for a long time and remained childless.
The couple cares for a stranger who had impressed them by his dedication to God, prayer and social concerns. What the couple does seems quite simple at first– after all, they seem to be influential people. Nonetheless, they interrupt their ordinary activities and private lives to care for Elisha, first with food at their table, then with overnight accommodations. And in their giving to him, they received so much more in return– the promise of new life, despite the bitter years of barrenness. Their own gift to Elisha was magnified beyond their comprehension.
Abraham and Sarah welcome the world
Today’s first reading from Genesis 18:1-10 presents Abraham as the model as the generous and hospitable host. In the charming biblical story, Abraham and Sarah welcomed the messengers of God with opened arms at the oaks of Mamre. Abraham is host, bringing water for the washing of feet and providing the shade of a tree for rest. The meal is a banquet, humorously described as “a little bread”: a bushel of flour, curds, milk, and a choice calf! Sarah remains in the tent; society’s customs forbid her from mingling with the male guests. She does the cooking, and nine months later the promise is fulfilled in the birth of her son, Isaac.
During the outdoor meal at the oaks of Mamre, God’s word was shared in a carefully staged play. Hospitality is an art form that requires careful staging! The strangers at Mamre (who we know are God and angels) come to dinner to deliver a message: God promises Abraham and Sarah that the barren will rejoice.
Abraham’s hospitality may appear to us to be a bit too lavish and excessive, but we must never forget the demanding tradition of the Middle East from which springs the Christian conviction regarding hospitality: in the guest, Christ is seen. In our every conversation, he is the silent listener.
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